“Don’t care about what others think of you. Just continue to speak your truth and let it go. After all, it is your healing process.”
I’ve been through so much within the past few years of my life. I went through a huge spiritual transformation. Many things that I am going to discuss in my upcoming book, but right now I want to discuss living your life based on other people’s thoughts of you.
When you care what people think of you-you are giving them your power, your energy, and control over you.
You are telling them and yourself that… You are NOT your own individual. You DO NOT love yourself. You ARE NOT confident in who you are and your abilities. You doubt yourself.
Why is that?
The main reason you need validation outside of yourself because you don’t trust yourself. I know this and understand where you are right this moment because this was me. We usually try to find validation within our group of friends and relatives. Others of us try to find it in complete strangers. We sit and hang on people’s thoughts and perspectives of who they think we are.
No one, not even your parents can tell you who you are. Only you can tell you who you are.
Whether that is low self-esteem, lack of confidence, fear or something else.
How do you stop caring about what other’s say and think about you?
It is a simple answer, but I am going to break it down for you because I am sure you will resist me. You make a commitment to yourself to stop caring. That is it. Sounds simple ass hell, but this is going to be a huge commitment.
A commitment you deserve love.